Monday, April 8, 2013

introduction to the Narcissist


Introduction

 

While millions of people sleep their dreams of reason, while many wake up and go to work around the city, the county, the state, the country, the world, commuting back and forth, putting their kids in daycare or dropping them off at school, hustling and bustling;  plenty of responsible people doing their part every day to keep this machine of society rolling day in and day out, getting paid minimum wage for hard meaningless jobs to getting paid top dollar to work in places where lies are repeated to keep most people at bay, I find myself, at the glorious age of thirty-three in the lowest of places any person can find themselves in: in solitary confinement.

               This was not the life I intended for myself in my innocent youth.  I had dreams of being an astronaut, dreams of racing between the faraway stars, further dreams of being a ground-breaking scientist, but never did I have dreams of being a lowly criminal, locked up because of his own bad habits that had been garnered over the years of living on the lowly scraps of life, thrown around here and there because there is no respect to be given to people who live with no respect for themselves.

               I have no one to blame but myself for being in this predicament.  I have followed my own bad way of life, and it has led me to this dark corner of the universe.  Here in this spot, I am alone.  I have no one to talk to, no one to tell my secrets to, no one to hear my story, this very story that I am writing.

               For too long, I have led a life in which I never existed.  I never believed my true self was out in this world, so I went along with whatever life had to offer me.  I never took life by its reigns and chose what I wanted to live.  Rather life lived it for me.  What life threw at me, I rode like a plastic horse on a carousel where someone else was paying my fare.

               When was I going to come off of this fake horse and touch the ground on my own?  When was the ride and funny music going to end so I could open my eyes and see that I was on the carousel all by myself?

               It is like Descartes, when he is in solitude in his little house for the winter and he is not content. He felt that he did not exist in this world until he latched on the notion that he was able to think for himself.  Once he was able to think for himself, once he was able to just think, he knew that he existed, because his mind was working on its own. (Cogito, Ergo Sum)

               This is what has transpired to me.  I thought deadly for so many years that when I was actually thinking for the first time, I was so close to my own death and madness.  I had taken off the pornographic film of life around my eyes and was able to see life for the first time, but the sad thing was that now, in solitary confinement for who knows how long, I was never going to taste life for what it really was.  For what I saw life was now, was so far from my grasp, my dreams were o no comparison to what I was missing in real life.

               What was different for me this time was how I was going to live my life, if ever I got out of this solitary confinement?  I have read many books on many subjects, but I never felt any wiser for having read them.  I’ve lived many lives in my thirty-three years, but I had on so many masks in all the facets of life, that now with my real face on, I did not know how to truly live in this mad and sane world.

               I was to be a new born babe in an old body coming to terms with life, trying to survive in a world with all the gunshots of life littering my dull and senseless body.

               I have walked to hell, been there a while and made it back to the rocky ground.  I have found out that I prefer the broken path to the path that has always been paved in gold.

               But the greatest gift I found out when I came back to the rocky path was that this whole time, this whole life I thought I was dead, in reality, I was breathing because I was alive and I was happy to be alive.  What I thought was lifelessness, was actually experience behind my ears.  You see, wisdom isn’t gained from reading a book, but rather wisdom is earned from living a story full of mistakes and how to live on with the mistakes committed in life.

               The whole time I spent searching for myself, through poems and words and music, it took me being by myself to understand that I love my fellow man, that I need my fellow woman, because without humanity, then I can never be a complete human being.  None of us could ever be complete by remaining by themselves, but with friends, family, compatriots, even enemies, we can tell each other of our life’s journeys and feel complete with living.

               I may not have lived long as some have lived, but what I have seen is through my experience, my life through my eye, I see how this world turns and this is how I perceive of that world.  We all have different opinions and ideals; there are just a few of what I have seen so far in my young life.

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