Saturday, February 16, 2013

when i was seventeen, as a game sent to me by my good friend


At that age, I read the stranger by Albert Camus and that book changed my life.  Since that first reading, I have read that book about fifteen times.  I was working at my first job, which was at the Greenwood Public Library, which is now known as McDonald’s.  Go figure, huh.  I had a car, a brown Buick; a Somerset was what it was.  It was a cool car; I used to go all over the place with it, with my friends and girls.  I remember going to the beach a lot and smoking a lot, and hanging out with these high school girls from my class at Moody High School.  The weird thing is that me and my friends used to hang out with these two girls, two cousins who were very beautiful.  One of them was a skinny girl whom I like a lot, but her cousin, was thin, but had a body that was rocking and rolling.  I remember being at the beach with these girls and I took off my shirt and the cousin, I forget her name, would stand next to me and rub her hand into my hairy chest and tell me how much she liked my hairy chest, because all these other boys she knew from school, were that, just boys.   And me, I was weird about it all.  I was their friend, their close friend when we were not in school.  But when it came to school, for some reason, I was ashamed to be seen with them.  Why, I don’t know, and I still think about that, about why I acted like I did not know who these girls were when I would see them in high school, but outside of school, I was their best friend.  I think that is very strange, indeed.  At high school, I was taking calculus and smoking lots all the time.   My hair was long; it went to the middle of my back.  I used to shave my head and only the top of my head was long.  I knew all these girls that had a crush on me from high school, but I did not do anything about it.  My anxiety was really bad and I did not talk to girls because I was afraid or I was a big pussy.  That is all I can think of when it comes to my relationships with girls.  It was no until a couple of years later that I would lose my innocence and I would think differently about girls.  At this time, I was a philosopher and a poet.  Girls were very far from my mind.  I read Nietzsche and Camus and Sartre.  I discovered Baudelaire in my life and started to read lots of popular fiction, like Grisham and Crichton.  When I was seventeen I was in charge of my life, and all I wanted to be was a poet.  Kind of like J. Keats, but little did I know what my life had in store for me?  I was taking classes at Moody that were audio visual video tape classes.  I used to make commercials, produce them for my class, and I used to snap lots of photos with a bad-ass camera that I bought with the money I was making from working at the library.  I used to play piano very much, and my piano teacher had me accepted at the Berklee College of music, located in Boston, Mass.  I was into Nirvana and Pearl Jam.  I really enjoyed Pearl Jam a lot.  I was getting into that underground indie scene, which would only lead me to even better music in the years to come.  I remember I bought this collection of compact discs, which was everything that John Lennon had recorded as a solo artist.  It was a compilation compact disc which consisted to four separate compact discs.  This was the most important buy that I made in my young life.  I loved these recordings so much.  I remember these crushes I had on certain girls, who would come in and see me at the library all the time.  They would look at me and ask my questions, and they would wait for me to ask them out.  But I was a naïve and stupid little boy, not realizing that these women were throwing themselves at me, so I ignored their advances and wondered late at night, why I did not have a girlfriend, and I wondered if I would ever have one.  My sexual tastes were questioned, and I wondered if I was a homosexual, not that I have anything against them, but I was curious about myself at that time, because I could not talk to girls, but I was able to talk to boys, any boys without any trouble.  Later on in my life, I discovered I was not gay, but that is at another age in my life.  When I was seventeen, I was already snorting things and popping pills like nothing.  I remember shortly before my eighteenth birthday, I had smoked a reefer, a marijuana stick, and I locked up my door, and when inside to my calculus class.  About twenty minutes into the mathematical lecture, by a teacher who thought he was the Jaime Escalante of South Texas.  My calculus teacher had all these sayings on his wall, from ‘poder es querer’ to a bunch of sayings that screamed Chicano pride.  What I do remember most about my teacher’s wall, was this long picture from M C Escher that always caught my eye.  Well, twenty minutes into this mindless number game called calculus and the security guard came in and asked for me by my name.  I went outside and saw police searching my car.  I was asked to open the car and the police dove in and searched my car thoroughly.  Fortunately nothing was found, except for two little seeds in the back seat.  My car smelled like weed because I and my two friends had just burned one on the way to school.  The vice principal at that time, told me that he did not know what was going to happen to me, but he sent me back to class and told me that I had better change.  That night was a Friday night, and I decided to cut off my beautiful long hair, to show the principal and all others who know about my predicament that I was capable of changing and that I needed a chance to prove to them that I was a good person.  Obviously it worked, for the vice principal called me into his office and told me that they were not going to pursue the case against me because for one they were just seeds, but also because I had shown initiative that I wanted to change my life.  This was the first time I lied about my usage, and it would not be my last.  I guess this was the first time that I was able to lie and get away with it, and use the knowledge to my ability, and get what I want.  It was not until four years later that I found out that what I was doing had a name already in the philosophical world, and this knowledge was very acute in my actions.  There are a lot of other things that I did at this age, but I’ll save that for next time.

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